When Winter Touches the Mind: A Season for Stillness, Strength & Self-Reclamation
What if this season isn’t here to break you… but to bring you home to yourself? The answer is inside.
I CHOOSE ME TOO
Wendy Javier
11/26/20253 min read
When Winter Touches the Mind:
A Season for Stillness, Strength & Self-Reclamation
Winter has a way of slowing everything down
the light, the routines, the energy, even the pieces of ourselves
we thought were unshakeable.
And while the world romanticizes snow days and cozy blankets,
for many of us, winter brings a different truth
a heaviness we can’t quite explain,
a shift in our mood, our motivation, our inner rhythm.
This is the season where mental wellness becomes sacred.
Intentional.
Non-negotiable.
Because winter doesn’t just touch the weather
it touches the mind.
🌬️ When the Body Feels It First
Before we even realize what’s happening mentally,
our body speaks.
We wake up more tired.
Our nervous system feels slower, tighter, heavier.
We crave comfort, silence, or sometimes nothing at all.
And then the feelings settle in…
The irritability.
The sadness.
The loneliness.
The lack of motivation.
The “why do I feel like this?”
The “what’s wrong with me?”
But nothing is wrong with you.
You are human.
You are cyclical.
You are responding to a real shift in the environment and your biology.
Winter can dysregulate the nervous system.
Less sunlight impacts mood, hormones, sleep, appetite, and energy.
This is not weakness
this is internal wisdom trying to communicate.
🌨️ The Emotional Weight of Winter
This season can trigger:
• Seasonal depression
• Emotional numbness
• Overwhelm
• Isolation
• Anxiety
• Executive dysfunction
• Loss of creativity or direction
And for many, winter brings grief
the kind no one talks about.
Grief for the version of you who feels lighter in the sun.
Grief for routines that suddenly feel impossible.
Grief for motivation that used to come so easily.
But here’s the truth no one says out loud:
Winter isn’t asking you to be stronger
Winter is asking you to be softer.
To yourself.
To your body.
To your inner world that is trying so hard to hold you together.
🕯️ Winter Is a Season of Returning to Your inner depth
This is the time to choose you with intention.
The time to practice nervous system care.
The time to slow down without guilt.
The time to allow your body to lead instead of pushing it to “perform.”
Winter invites you to:
• Rest without apologizing
• Let go of what drains your mental capacity
• Honor your emotions instead of hiding them
• Nourish your spirit with warmth and connection
• Create daily rituals that anchor your nervous system ( breathwork)
• Seek support when the weight becomes too much (coaching, therapy or a listening ear)
You don’t have to carry this season alone.
You don’t have to pretend you’re okay.
You don’t have to battle your mental health in silence.
You deserve the same care you pour into everyone else.
❄️ Choosing Yourself in Winter Is Revolutionary
In a world that glorifies productivity,
winter reminds us of the truth nature already knows:
Rest is not a weakness.
Pausing is not failure.
Stillness is not giving up.
Your worth is not tied to how much you can produce in the dark months.
Your value is not measured by how well you “keep it all together.”
This season can be your invitation to reconnect with yourself.
To rebuild.
To recalibrate.
To breathe deeper than you have all year.
And that is the heart of I Choose Me Too:
Returning to your inner self in the moments you need you the most.
**💛 You Are Not Hard to Love.
You Are Not Falling Behind.
You Are Not Broken.**
You are adjusting.
You are adapting.
You are navigating a season that affects the mind, body, and soul.
This winter, let’s create a new rhythm:
one rooted in compassion, presence, and self-leadership.
Because mental wellness isn’t a destination
it’s a daily decision.
A daily choosing.
A daily remembering that:
You are worthy of the care you keep giving to everyone else.
You deserve to feel safe inside your own body.
And you are allowed to choose yourself especially now.
Choose you too!